Don't Wait To Read This ;) ;)

Q: "Aaaannnnn... I wannaaaaa have that toy(rolling on the floor).. I want it!!...I want it!!....I want it!!"
A: "You are Momma's good girl right(with a stern terrifying look) ?? .. Good !!! I will get you the best one when the time is right"

Q: "Mom!! Can I get my eyebrows done??"
A: "Ehennn...U are still too young.. Concentrate on your studies n Don't talk too much"

Q: "Dad!! All my school friends are going for a movie.. I was thinking If I can join too.. Can I ??
A: "NO..And I don't want arguments.. NO IF'S And BUT'S ... A Simple NO means a NO.. You are not that BIG enough Girl !!"

Q: "Mom you remember that guy from my school.. my classmate.. tall, handsome... He said He likes me!!"
A: "What??... So you people go to school for such stuff.. I want to meet your class Teacher.. Keep away from Guys m telling you!!!.. Pretty early a stage for you to think of such stuff"

Q: "Dad!! I want a new mobile - the latest one"
A: "Do you have any idea about your latest syllabus for the current Semester?? Study n Prove urself worthy of expensive stuff"

Q: "Mom!! We girls are planning a night out at Saumya's place.. Can I go??.. Please.. Just for once??"
A: "Ask your Dad.. I don't know.. Your demands are on a high these days.. Your Dad isn't in the best of his moods.. Besides I don't think you will get the permission"

Q: "I Like Him Yaar.. What do you think should I tell him ??"
A: "Hmm... Are You sure.. Hold on and gauge his feelings for some more time"

Q: "I am not happy with my job.. Shall I switch ??"
A: "Hmmmmm... I don't think the market is right.. Speculate and  take steps only when it's time !!"

General Inference : WAIT !!!

As the Chakra of Life revolves the one constant thing that we learn or rather tend to practice is to - WAIT.
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And why not??
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"Putting off or delaying things until something else happens" - It just sounds so simple.
Well we all like simplicity and we prefer to just "leave it" n "wait".
Wait..Wait Again..Some More Wait..Still More Wait...Mmmmm Wait...Hmmmm
Wait...Wait...............................

Well if you give WAIT such WEIGHT then your FATE definiately is at STAKE ;)
Why is it that we wait for things to come our way.. wait to see if things get all right all by themselves.. wait to cherish what we have.. most of all Wait to show Love and Care ...
It so happens that we focus on all the wrong things while waiting for the percieved right things and loose it all.. well we realise only when its gone !!!!.. n we still wait for things to get better..LOL

I absolutely hate it to - WAIT but sometimes you just don't have an option... But if you do see options GO BANG ON , cos you never know a little wait might just take away all you could have had..
It's a little tricky but give it a thought !!


I was gearing up for the Board Examinations(Grade 10) and the only thing on a HIGH was the Study Pressure. It was a usual Cold Delhi night-calm,silent,serene and we all were asleep. Just then the phone rung and I saw Mom and Dad rushing somewhere. Unaware of the crisis I just went off to sleep. Next day I learnt that the cold dark night swept away my closest pal silently with it. I had lost my maternal uncle , he succumbed to death fighting a heart valve failure.
The only thing buzzing in my mind was his very last words to me on the call a day before -
"All the Best.. I know you are going to excel in whatever you do in life. We will meet soon"....
I was just waiting for the exams to get over. And it turned out to be the wait of a lifetime.

I had a friend and I loved talking to him.. Somehow over the time we both just got busy in our respective lives, lost touch and the process of waiting introduced a new element in our friendship called EGO. I used to see his social networking posts and crib to myself that he has all the time in the world to go GA GA on the internet but he can't call to check whats up with me.
Maybe he would have thought the same about me.
We never talked again..And then one day the news came that he was no more !!!
I was taken aback because I knew what I had lost just while waiting for him to make a move.. I realised I would never be able to talk to him..never again..
The only question that comes to my mind everytime I think of him is - " Why did I Wait??? "



Well don't be so scared !!! .. That's what WAIT costed me..
I chose to symbolise it in the extremist way..Your tryst with it can be a bit different.
Besides what i just mentioned there can be 'n' number of reasons for waiting.
 Like - You think It's not the perfect time, You fear rejecion, You have doubts on your capabilities.....

On this note I can't help myself from bringing in some general candid real life situations.
So picture this..

You just had a scuffle with your loved one - like a disagreement, an argument or a little misunderstanding over usual stuff.
Well you might have already guessed what I'm trying to get to.
Yeah!!! I mean both - you and your loved one will just wait for the other person to take the initiative and set things right, to apologise or to make up for the fight. But Hey That's not so simple :)
Just in case if there is no effort from either side, then definiately you have a problem at hand.
Well who's the culprit here - STUPID WAIT !!!!


You have hot's for somebody really special ;) You both are the closest of friends.. But you don't make a move to take things forward thinking it might ruin the relationship. Or maybe you just believe in perfect timing and are munching courage to pop it out in a traditional way on the Valentine's eve.
Well maybe while you were busy counting the stars , somebody else already stole your moon.


You know you have been performing really well on the work front and it's time for a Progression session in office. You see your peer's getting promoted and you wish the same. The verdict is out and you figure out that you are nowhere even close to the qualifying list. I laugh over it because it's the most common situation around. Well what usually goes wrong?
It's hard to accept but you just expect your BOSS to see how much efforts you have been putting in and you wait to be rewarded.
Wait for him to see the best in you. LOL
Kidding me if you still think WAIT WITHOUT ACTION WILL GET YOU A POSITIVE REACTION !! Besides modern day Bosses are not Angels from Heaven :)


You are on the road and "BOOM" u see an accident.. Well you can see a person getting badly hurt u feel bad inside and you stop to watch. But you just stop to watch what happens next.
You wait for somebody else to extend a helping hand to the poor injured person.
You talk of goodness but when it's the time to show it.. You just prefer to WAIT


You have had your heart-broken once again... You still love ur "ex" for XYZ reasons... You know it's not gonna work out but you wait like an idiot just with the thought of being together again.
Well you waste all the time in the world doing stupid things for the person that cares a damn for you - just waiting for them to realise your worth...
Needless to say, u actually being a "NUT"...


If it comes to penning down instances.. i can go ON and ON and ON...
But i prefer to now focus on the whole point of writing such a BIG note..

So here it goes ...
I read it somewhere and it says it all in the fewest possible words -  "DON'T WAIT FOR YOUR SHIP TO COME IN, SWIM OUT TO IT"


This is my first ever blog post...
Well I would admit this here that I have really been looking forward for exploiting this side of my personality for over a long time now.
When I thought of penning it down, I couldn't figure out an appropriate topic to get it all started..
But As I already quoted before, I hate to WAIT.. So that is it !!!.. I Got my topic :)

So for all you people reading this...
" Don't wait to show what you have .. Grab the moment and Go with it..."
Ahemmm... Well Don't wait to leave your kind comments ;)